The XY chromosome creation

I have long felt that there is something truly holy about when men gather together. That is not to say mixed company isn't holy, but in this present day life, when men gather for a common purpose, if even for just a drink to hash out life's twists and turns, something profound takes place.

This morning I was part of a cohort of men desiring to see other men become more involved. Now, this was at my church but our intentions are not to get more men involved at church. The purpose is to gather men together, through common bonds (cars, fishing, camping, sports, coffee, etc) to foster masculine growth that would in turn reflect on their marriages, family, and careers.

One gentleman shared how a few years ago he went on a mountain biking adventure with some friends. It was all planned out and highly organized. It was some serious fun. But as much fun as the day was, he will never forget the car ride where he just talked about matters of the soul and heart with a few other trust worthy men. Another guy spoke about studies done at Promise Keepers events (huge conferences for men only on spiritual topics) where the impact that happens in men's life doesn't come from the main meeting sessions and speakers, but the car rides where buddies talk about anticipations prior to the event, and conclusions afterwards.

I am extremely excited to see what God has in store. There is this process that must take place where boys turn into men, but in today's society, that is unknown how. In my life, I can't say I have made the transition. I still feel more like a boy, needing others to care for me, rather than providing care for others. What does it mean to be a man? How do I get there?

All I know is meeting with men on a regular basis from all different walks of life, with a common passion for growth, wisdom, maturity, leadership, wholeness, compassion, integrity, and loyalty, will only help sharpen me into the Man God has designed me to become.